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 enlarge | Author: Shaunti Feldhahn
Publisher: Multnomah Books
Category: Book
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Rating:  227 reviews
Sales Rank: 893
Media: Hardcover
Number Of Items: 1
Pages: 208
Shipping Weight (lbs): 0.6
Dimensions (in): 7.1 x 5.2 x 0.8
ISBN: 1590523172
Dewey Decimal Number: 248
EAN: 9781590523179
ASIN: 1590523172
Publication Date: July 28, 2004
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 Very resourceful April 10, 2008
1 out of 2 found this review helpful
I was afraid to buy this book because I wasn't sure if I wanted to really know what men thought. I bought this book for the visual chapter. A year ago I went through a divorce. It ultimately ended because I was cheated on. My husband blind sided me because, despite our problems, I trusted him to the fullest. He convinced me he wasn't like other guys who looked at other women. I never caught him looking and he never said anything sexual about the opposite sex. This may sound totally stupid, but I never thought he had sexual thoughts about other women. So you can imagine my shock when I found out he cheated on me and a few other surprises that I thought were out of his character. Now I am happily in another relationship, but my boyfriend is more open about the opposite sex. He's not disrespectful, but I'm not used to it. I have to learn to emotionally deal with this "new knowledge" that men do look at women from scratch. I find myself feeling anxieties when a beautiful woman is in his line of vision. I feel totally inferior. So I bought this book for help. It was hard to read, but a huuuuuge eye opener. If I knew then what I know now, I may not be divorced today - honestly. I bought the book for the visual chapter, but as I was reading it, I realized everything I did wrong in my previous marriage. I didn't show respect, affirmation, and sex was minimal. No wonder. But, I am with a super person now and I can use this new knowledge and become a better person and girlfriend. I am not religious and I still found this book extremely helpful. Some of the lesser reviews on here said that this book was common sense. I thought it might be too, but each chapter had so much detail that I learned a ton from it. I will be giving it to my daughter when she's of age.
For women only March 31, 2008
1 out of 2 found this review helpful
Wow...Wonderful book. Opened my eyes, I wish that I read this book on my wedding day! My marriage would not have been in crisis mode for years. I am so thankful to Shaunti for writing a book that is based on surveys and conversations from men - I highly recommend this book. My life, husband and marriage has truly been blessed by reading, understanding, respecting, honoring and loving my husband.
Question? What is your husband's number 1 need? Did you know that approximately 81% men answering her survey stated this #1 need is not being met.
Marriage is work! March 31, 2008
1 out of 2 found this review helpful
My marriage was falling apart, I left my husband and came back home to Louisiana to be closer to my family. My husband followed and began getting counseling at a local Pentecostal church. His life began to show significant change...I new he was no doing it alone, but that God had taken out his heart of stone and replaced it with a heart of flesh! I had always heard of such stories of how God transformed people and made them new, but never really thought that my husband would ever be one! He was prideful, boasting always, arrogant, rude and constantly on the edge of exploding. I was on pens and needles around him. I knew I had to save my children from a life of chaos and confusion. I have always been very close to Jesus. I guess I just couldn't see him as the great miracle worker in my own life, only in others around me. He is truly the master crafts man. Worthy of all Praise and honor! God saved my Marriage. We are now both in counseling together and we couldn't be happier. I have found that I was to blame for a number of problems in my marriage as well. God has began to open my eyes to many different areas he wants to change within me. My husband and I communicate now and always put God first in our lives no matter what! Without God in the equation...all is lost. Back to the book: I received it during one of our counseling meeting. It has been a real eye opener for me. So many things that I thought where not really important(to me), ARE IMPROTANT TO HIM(my husband). If it is important to him...it should be important to me as well. I would recommend this book to women everywhere, in all walks of life. Young and single, married and happy, married and miserable...take this book and read it. Then give it to someone you know to enjoy and have them pass it on too.
Thanks for listening,
Brandy
For Women Only March 26, 2008
0 out of 2 found this review helpful
Fabulous book! I was having communication problems with the man in my life and purchased this book hoping to find ideas to help open our communication. It opened my eyes to many things I never knew to a man's way of thinking and I am glad I bought it. I have referenced back to it many times to make sure I am understanding his way of thinking when our communication gets short-wired. I would definitely recommend this book to any woman having trouble communicating with her man.
Great Book March 25, 2008
1 out of 2 found this review helpful
Truly a great book. I shouldn't have read it, since I'm a guy, but I did to see if it was an accurate presentation my inner feelings. It was dead on the money! I then read the companion, "For Men Only" book, figuring if Shuanti had me figured out, she'd surely also have my wife figured out. I highly recommend this book. -Michael.
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