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 enlarge | Authors: Dr. Henry Cloud, Dr. John Townsend
Publisher: Zondervan
Category: Book
New (10) Used (9) from $7.94
Rating:  16 reviews
Sales Rank: 783758
Media: Paperback
Edition: Ldg
Number Of Items: 1
Pages: 160
Shipping Weight (lbs): 1
Dimensions (in): 10.9 x 8.5 x 0.6
ISBN: 0310246148
Dewey Decimal Number: 291
EAN: 9780310246145
ASIN: 0310246148
Publication Date: August 1, 2002
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 New age psychology June 21, 2005
6 out of 17 found this review helpful
The concept of forming boundaries between spouses is contrdictory to forming unity in a marriage. From a biblical perspective, boundaries are inconsistent with forming "one flesh" (Mt 19: 5-6). Practically, one spouse actively attempting to change the other is contrary to a fulfulling relationship. While the authors "say" (Ch 3 I think) that they agree with this, their techniques reflect spousal manipulation (one spouse should take away the other's credit card, one spouse should refuse to provide meals, etc.).
The Biblical references are ALL incidental to the book's main theme, which has no real foundation in scripture. This book should not be used as a biblical teaching resourse and should be looked upon skeptically by any reader.
A Very Useful Book, But You May Still Need a Pro November 20, 2002
6 out of 9 found this review helpful
A Very Useful Book, But You May Still Need a Pro
Reviewer: siddheartha from Warren, MI USA
This is a very good book about boundaries.
Yes, it is steeped in Christianity. If you are a Christian, that is a very big plus and will make this book even more helpful. However, if you are not, you can still get great value from this book.
This book will teach, giving examples, about building appropriate boundaries in your marriage. If you are not married you can still prepare. Starting with good, strong boundaries will help you pick a better mate (for you), and make for a stronger marriage, too.
If you are in a troubled marriage, it may be difficult to use this book. If the good will in the marriage has headed south, get a marriage counselor who is familiar with the book and willing to help you both build better boundaries.
Those with good boundaries are the happiest people.
Good luck! Enjoy.
Oh, why not 5 stars? It is a well-written book. The examples are mostly useful. And as much as I like the reliance on Christian values, the book leans on them too much.
It is a very subjective thing. So I can understand most people give 5 stars.
Hard Read July 5, 2002
3 out of 22 found this review helpful
The authors of this book need to get out of the physco-babble and into an english class. While the concepts of the book are sound (and helpful), it is often difficult to get past their poor english to the points they are attempting to make. Be prepared to wade through the unnecessary words.
 Excelent.. February 26, 2002
6 out of 10 found this review helpful
I've been married for over 11 years and I found this book to be a great find. Both Cloud and Townsend have done a great job giving great advice.
Boundaries in Marriage May 23, 2001
14 out of 18 found this review helpful
If you are contemplating marriage, married for a few years, or thinking of re-marrying, this book is for you. As long as you have the basic foundation, Love, this can be your guide to "happily ever after." Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend do an excellent job of "talking" to you through this book. And their use of couples' examples lets you sit back and do an inventory of yourself: "Whoa, do I do that?" We have 4 children and I'm getting Boundaries With Kids next!
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