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The Enlightened Stepmother: Revolutionizing the Role | 
 enlarge | Authors: Perdita K. Norwood, Teri Wingender
Publisher: Harper Paperbacks
List Price: $15.95
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Rating:  30 reviews
Media: Paperback
Number Of Items: 1
Pages: 464
Shipping Weight (lbs): 0.7
Dimensions (in): 7.8 x 5.2 x 1.2
ISBN: 038079604X
Dewey Decimal Number: 306.874
EAN: 9780380796045
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Product Description
Becoming a stepmother is a life-altering event in any woman's life. The issues are extraordinarily complex and women are overwhelmingly unprepared. Yet concerns usually focus on the effect remarriage has on the children. The Enlightened Stepmother approaches the subject from a totally new perspective -- that of the stepmother. Based on information -- sometimes controversial -- from stepmoms of all ages, occupations and lifestyles, who know from experience what works, what doesn't and why -- What you need to know about your new family before you become part of it.How to get off to the right start. (It's hard to change a relationship once you've taken the path of least resistance.)How to prevent, rather than cure, the stepmom's classic pitfalls.What you need to recognize about your relationship with your husband's children.How to handle relationships between your kids and his.Why you need to give your marriage top priority.How to make sure others are aware that this is your life too.Why you need to develop a working relationship with your stepchildren's mother.How to understand the inevitable stages every stepfamily passes through.How to overcome the guilt of not loving -- or even liking -- your stepchildren.How to avoid feeling guilty in circumstances over which you have no control.Why a successful stepfamily is as unique as every stepmom.AND MUCH MORE
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 Get this Book -- Excellent! June 18, 2008
This is the best book about becoming a stepmother. I wish that I had it when I initially became one. It provides a great deal of clarity for the role and many helpful techniques to navigate a difficult path. Have your husband read it as well -- it will be a value resource for you both.
Straightforward and No-Nonsense June 11, 2008
This is a book that gets right to the point and doesn't waste my time throwing fakey "hugs and support" icons my way. It treats me as an independent and highly competent adult. The facts are there, the likelihoods, probabilities and tendencies and indications are all spelled out as well. It was well-written and researched and held my attention.
This book may have saved my marriage (time will tell.) The plain-spoken-ness of the text informed me and my husband more concisely than the $250/hr psychologist we had been seeing.
If you are or about to become a stepmother, read it now. Let me repeat, read it now.
 Helpful Info, Truthiness in this book February 26, 2008
I ordered this book based off of all the positive reviews it included. While I did find some helpful tips, this was a difficult book to read. It was very matter of fact and a bit doom and gloom.
The book seemed to focus on you having an "out" for your marriage too. It was a very tough read.
It is also more helpful for those that have been married previously and have children from a previous marriage.
MUST read BEFORE you marry into a family with children!! August 2, 2007
For my situation, this did not apply until about the third to the last page. Until I got to that page of pertinence, I thought, "I wish I would have read this book several years ago."
This is a good combination of common sense, good advice and interesting introspect. Some hard to hear but astute lessons are here. Reading this before marriage would have saved me a lot of headache and heartache. Simple, straightforward and easily applicable.
The sample group of women that the author refers to as the people she interviewed for the writing of this book are as varied as there are women in the world. It was great to hear that some of the women interviewed were: younger, older, working, stay at home, resentful, dedicated, loyal, forgiving, and one ultimately was divorced. It makes it clear to the reader that not just one kind of stepmom is successful and that if you feel guilty, unloved, unloving or unmotivated, you aren't alone, aren't abnormal and aren't wrong. Women from any perspecive will find valuable information in this book.
I was married for three years and went through hell and back before this was recommended to me. I wish I had found it sooner.
(If you feel unsupported by your husband, you won't find anything that will make you feel better until almost the end of the book. Read the whole thing anyway...it is all pertinent. Either divorce him, don't marry him, or read this book to him.)
got scared July 18, 2007
I was once engaged to a wonderful divorced man with a child until I panicked and called off the wedding. I really miss him and was hoping to find courage in taking on the stepmother role. But I cannot agree more with Ms. Dowdall's review below that this book is packed with information but is depressing. Reading it, I felt that perhaps I had been lucky to get out of the relationship in time. If I am judging solely the information contained in the book, I would give it 4 stars, but for the negative emotional impact, I would have to give it 2 stars, coming out to be an average of 3 stars.
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